I normally don’t wear a body con style dress, but I absolutely LOVE this dress. Everything about it. The quality and material are excellent. Very soft. The lace does not itch. Beautiful how the lace extends past the fabric and hits the arms and upper calf perfectly. The dress has stretch and is not tight. You can move and sit with ease. You will not want to take this off for how comfortable it is. Yes, you can be sexy and modest! This dress is a show stopper. I purchased a Large in Black for an evening wedding. Planning on purchasing a second color in Salmon for another event.